31 March, 2011

The only difference
between ordinary and
extraordinary is effort.
Extraordinary people are
simply willing to do the
things that ordinary people
are not willing to do.

30 March, 2011

"When it comes to the
future, there are three kinds
of people: those who let it
happen, those who make
it happen, and those who
wonder what happened."

~ John M. Richardson, Jr. ~

29 March, 2011

"We can let circumstances
rule us or we can take
charge and rule our
lives from within."

~ Earl Nightingale ~

28 March, 2011

Not knowing how
to do something
is not an excuse
to not do something.

~ Robert Kiyosaki ~

25 March, 2011

The art of living is that
ability to turn negativity
and negative experiences
into positive learning
and positive reality.

24 March, 2011

"I've not failed. I've
just found 10,000 ways
that won't work."

~ Thomas Edison ~

23 March, 2011

"Faith is daring the soul
to go beyond what
the eyes can see."

~ William Newton Clark ~

22 March, 2011

"Give without
remembering and take
without forgetting."

~ Elizabeth Asquith Bibesco ~

21 March, 2011

Every job is a self-portrait
of the person who does
it. Autograph your work
with excellence!

18 March, 2011

"We should seize
every opportunity to
give encouragement.
Encouragement is
oxygen to the soul."

~ George M. Adams ~

17 March, 2011

"If you got it, ask yourself
why and try to repeat the
action. If you failed, ask
yourself why and try to
learn from the experience."

~ Dale Carnegie ~

16 March, 2011

"What you do every day
should contribute to
giving your life meaning.
If it doesn't, why are
you doing it?"

~ Don Hutcheson ~

15 March, 2011

Practice random acts of
intelligence and senseless
acts of self-control!

14 March, 2011

I've Learned

A Birth Certificate shows that we were born
A Death Certificate shows that we died
Pictures show that we lived!
Have a seat...Relax...And read this slowly.

I've Learned - by Kathy Kane Hansen

I've learned – that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.

I've learned – that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.

I've learned – that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned – that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned – that you can get by on charm
for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned – that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do,
but to the best you can do.

I've learned – that it's not what happens to people
that’s important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned – that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned – that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.

I've learned – that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.

I've learned – that it's a lot easier
to react than it is to think.

I've learned – that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned – that you can keep going
long after you think you can't.

I've learned – that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

I've learned – that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I've learned – that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be
something else to take its place.

I've learned – that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.

I've learned – that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned – that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned – that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned – that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned – that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned – that sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned – that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
The same goes for true love.

I've learned – that just because someone
doesn't love you the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned – that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you've had,
and what you've learned from them,
and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned – that you should never tell a child
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating,
and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I've learned – that your family won't always be there for you.
It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to
can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren't biological.

I've learned – that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned – that it isn't always enough
to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn
to forgive yourself.

I've learned – that no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned – that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned – that sometimes when my friends fight,
I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I've learned – that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned – that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned – that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.

I've learned – that you shouldn't be so
eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.

I've learned – that two people can look
at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.

I've learned – that no matter how you try to protect
your children, they will eventually get hurt
and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned – that there are many ways of falling
and staying in love.

I've learned – that no matter the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves
get farther in life.

I've learned – that no matter how many friends you have,
if you are their pillar you will feel lonely
and lost at the times you need them most.

I've learned – that your life can be changed
in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.

I've learned – that even when you think
you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.

I've learned – that writing, as well as talking,
can ease emotional pains.

I've learned – that the paradigm we live in
is not all that is offered to us.

I've learned – that credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned – that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.

I've learned – that although the word "love"
can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.

I've learned – that it's hard to determine
where to draw the line between being nice and
not hurting people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe.

I've learned – that the happiest of people
don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything.

13 March, 2011

11 March, 2011

"Every day is a gift; that is
why we call it the present."

~ Alfred Hitchcock ~

10 March, 2011

"You need to be before you
can do and you need to
do before you can have!"

~ Zig Ziglar ~

09 March, 2011

Trust is the most valuable
thing you'll ever earn.

08 March, 2011

"Don't let the fear of
the thorn keep you
from the rose."

~ Groucho Marx ~

07 March, 2011

Circumstances may
stink in your life...
but you don't have to!

06 March, 2011

Slow Dance

Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight,
or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.

Do you run through each day on the fly,
when you ask "How are you?", do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.

Ever told your child, we'll do it tomorrow,
and in your haste, not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, let a friendship die,
cause you never had time to call and say hi?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere,
you miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,
it's like an unopened gift thrown away.

Life is not a race, so take it slower,
hear the music before the song is over.

 

About the Author
David L. Weatherford is a child psychologist with published poems in"Chicken Soup for the Soul". If you want to enjoy more of David's beautiful writings, please visit www.davidlweatherford.com

Your Best Foot Forward

Which sounds longer to you 569,400 hours or 65 years? They are exactly the same in length of time.

The average man spends his first eighteen years - 157,000 hours - getting an education. That leaves him 412,000 hours from age 18 to 65.

Eight hours of every day are spent in sleeping; eight hours in eating and recreation. So there is left eight hours to work each day.

One third of 412,000 hours is 134,000 hours - the number of hours a man has in which to work between the age of 18 and 65. Expressed in hours it doesn't seem a very long time, does it?

Now I am not recommending that you tick off the hours that you worked, 134,000, 133,999,133,998, etc., but I do suggest that whatever you do, you do it with all that you have in you.

If you are sleeping, sleep well.
If you are playing, play well.
If you are working, give the best that is in you, remembering that in the last analysis the real satisfaction in life comes not from money and things, but from the realization of a job well done.

Therein lies the difference between the journeyman worker and a real craftsman.

By H. W. Prentis, Jr., (1884-1959)

04 March, 2011

"If you're not having
fun, you're doing
something wrong."

~ Groucho Marx ~

03 March, 2011

"Everything can be taken
from a person except
one thing, the last of
the human freedom: to
choose one's attitude in
any given circumstance, to
choose one’s own way."

~ V. Frankle ~

02 March, 2011

If it wasn't for mistakes,
we would never learn
how to do things right.

01 March, 2011

"In times of change, the
doers will inherit the earth,
while the thinkers will find
themselves beautifully
equipped to deal with a
world that no longer exists."

~ Eric Hoffer ~